I have been on this diet thing for 8 months and 11 days before someone noticed that I had lost weight. I was heading down the elevator yesterday when a coworker, who I haven’t mentioned the diet to, asked me if I lost weight and commented that I looked good. Granted, I still have a lot of pounds more to loose and I am still wearing my large baggy clothes, but it was still a nice confirmation that I am on the right path and the weight loss is starting to get noticeable.
Another lady, who overheard the conversation, asked what my secret was to loosing all the weiht (43 pounds to date). My response… “Counting calories, working out, and drinking water”. As she turned to leave I added one more thing to the list… “and the will power to do it.”
It really is that simple. With all the diet fads out there, weight loss really comes down to eating a well-balanced meal that is less calories than you burn per day. Working out helps increase the amount of calories you burn and helps increase your overall metabolism and I think we have all read or heard about the numerous benefits of drinking 8-8oz glasses of water a day. And No, Gatorade G2 is not a valid substitute for water, mom!
The last one, the willpower to do it, is probably the toughest one of the bunch and the one that stops most folks from getting past that 2-4 week stage in their diet attempts. I have seemingly always been heavy and attempted many, many diets over the years. I have always headed into those diest wanting to loose weight, but days or maybe weeks later, the motivation is gone and its back to the bad eating and bad health habits.
So, what makes this time different? i am not sure. They say, with age comes wisdom and maybe there is some truth to that. Maybe I am now old and wise enough to really commit to this diet, to go and workout despite not wanting to on some days, and to know that here will be stumbles along the way and that is ok. Maybe it was cause I was turning 40, in the worst shape of my life, feeling bad, and I needed to make a change. I didn’t want my 40s to turn out like my 30s. Or maybe there are better tools out there now (nearby pools, calorie counting websites, & friends to hold me accountable) to accomplish this diet. I am not sure if it was one or a combination of all of them, but there was something deep down inside of me that really was ready to make this time different and I must say, I knew it from the start. I knew that my mindset was different this time around.
I would add one more thing to my list. Patience. I know this won’t happen overnight. I know there will be parties and life getting in the way which leads to ups and downs on the scale. I know when you come across those inevitable weight gains, to keep eating well and working out and drinking that water and eventually the weight will come off. You don’t loose 40 pounds overnight, so patience is needed.
I am not a patient person (stop laughing), but I orignally gave myself 1 year to try this diet thing. Now, 8 months later, I am in it for the long haul; however long it takes to loose all the weight I want to loose. I may never get there or it might take me years, but after loosing 40 pounds, I am willing to make the effort go further.
I received one other comment yesterday. I was called “Sir” by one of our security guards. I guess my new haircut is a bit too short.